How Much is Too Much Child Support?

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On Jan. 1, Massachusetts adopted new child-support guidelines (link is external) that will likely raise the amount paid by non-custodial parents, usually fathers.

Are the new guidelines excessive and unfair, as a lawsuit charges? Or were the old guidelines too stingy? How much child support is enough? How much is too much?

Fathers & Families (link is external), a Boston-based advocacy organization, says the payments under the new guidelines are excessive. Non-custodial parents, usually fathers, who must now make increased payments could be forced to work long hours or move to a distant community to find housing they can afford.

FOX 25 Boston News – – Just hearing the words child support sparks an emotional response. Fathers who feel like the rules are more about the paycheck than the parenting, mothers who say they cant live on what they have. In general, the perception is, its unfairly biased against men in the state of Massachusetts, says John Ollen of Marthas Vineyard. Full Story

They will have less time to spend with their children, and may be left with a much lower standard of living than the custodial parents.

Fathers & Families immediately filed a lawsuit (link is external) challenging the new guidelines.

In a press release(link is external) announcing the guidelines, Massachusetts Chief Justice for Administration & Management Robert A. Mulligan said that the guidelines “address the dual goals of predictability and simplicity,” and “will ensure the well-being of children across the state.”

The issues raised in Massachusetts are echoed in other states, where child-support guidelines often seem, to fathers, to be unrealistically high. And to others, unrealistically low.

Dr. Ned Holstein, a physician and public-health consultant and the founder of Fathers & Families, says the guidelines will likely create a castle-and-a-shack situation-with the custodial parent living in relative comfort and the non-custodial parent struggling to afford minimally adequate housing.

“We believe that what’s best for children is a two-condo solution, instead of a castle and a shack,” Holstein said when I called to ask him about the lawsuit. In other words, the custodial and non-custodial parents ought to have similar standards of living. And both homes should be comfortable for the children.

Holstein’s lawsuit-thrown out of federal court(link is external) earlier this month, and now headed for state court-makes technical arguments about whether the adoption of the new guidelines was legal.

But one substantive point, according to the suit, is that the courts did not try to determine what it costs to raise a child in Massachusetts before adjusting the guidelines. Nor did the task force that developed the guidelines set out clear goals in making the changes.

“Their objectives are really unclear, and as a result they do not serve the best interests of children,” says Holstein, who was a member of that task force and who filed a dissenting minority report.

The guidelines are particularly onerous for poor fathers, he says, who will not be able to make the payments and will then face harassment by enforcement agencies and even jail.

“Currently the guidelines tell the minimum wage employee whose income is $16,000 that you’re going to pay $4,000 in child support. It can’t be done.” In Boston, a minimum wage employee with that obligation might be able to rent an apartment but would have nothing left over for food, Holstein says.

“Get out your TurboTax, and get out your child-support guidelines, and run the numbers. You’ll see that in most cases the guidelines were a windfall, and now they’re a bigger windfall,” he says.

In middle-class families in which the earnings of both parents are about the same, “you create two households that are grossly different in the standard of living,” Holstein says.

The federal court threw out the Fathers & Families lawsuit on legal grounds, saying it should be argued in state court.

The state court will now be asked to decide whether the guidelines are fair. But on what basis can it make that decision? Surely data on the costs of childrearing in Massachusetts should be considered. Holstein’s argument that both parents should have comparable living quarters-the two-condo solution-seems reasonable.

Yet it’s difficult to know whether the payments are too high or too low without, as Holstein says, running the numbers. It appears that nobody in Massachusetts has done that. And it’s an open question whether the lawsuit will require the state to do so.enforce-visitation-not-child-support-2016What is enough, what is too much?

Mad about Governor Scott’s Veto of the Bill for Florida Family Law Reform?

Dear Governor Scott,

I am writing to express my support of CS/SB 668, Alimony and Time-Sharing Bill. Children deserve to have both parents in their lives equally. All too often, children are used as pawns between parents jockeying for leverage during a custody dispute. Senator Stargel’s bill would eliminate this and would allow both parents to have equal time in their child(ren)’s lives.

We are always told that children are our most precious resource and our state has the opportunity to show the country and the world that we truly value this long-standing belief. The greatest day of my life was when I became a parent. All too often, one parent finds themselves spending considerably less time with their child(ren). This is unfair. It takes two people to create a child. Why shouldn’t these same two people be able to share equally in the life of the child they created? In closing, I am asking that you show your support for all of Florida’s children and parents by voting in favor of CS/SB 668. Our children need and deserve both parent’s time equally.


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The Fathers’ Rights Movement ·

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So you’d rather watch tournament games and go bowling than support a “We Are Fathers” campaign for justice and equality. Well that’s your choice, it’s a free country, in theory anyway. But you should know that countless lawyers, child experts and bureaucrats are cheering you on because they profit from all this apathy and a misguided sense of priorities. In America today, our government is engaged in the lucrative expansion of a child control bureaucracy that is harming our families, productivity and moral fiber as a nation. This vast public enterprise has invaded every aspect of private life, often wielding power beyond that exercised by the NSA, CIA or IRS. It is a silent and insidious trend eroding parental rights repeatedly declared by our Supreme Court to be the “oldest liberty interest” protected by the United States Constitution. This interest is shared equally by fathers and mothers. But in practice, the male half has not been accorded its rightful place among our human rights due to a profit motive in family court driven by needless custody, support and divorce contests. Census Bureau reports continue to show the gender disparities on all domestic fronts. After promoting a parental rights cause in Paris recently, I was amazed to note how a million people together with world leaders could rally in that city within days to support free speech. Meanwhile, here in the states, more than 70 million fathers have yet to mobilize after a century of widespread discrimination. Such discrimination is having harmful impacts on all aspects of society and quite likely the female population more so than its counterpart. Veterans, minorities and high profile figures are particularly vulnerable to a court system that has placed money and politics over genuine parent-child relationships. Fathers are a vital component of any social or family structure as they have been since the beginning of civilization. Unfortunately federal entitlement laws and incentive funding to the states have marginalized that role to a point of virtual extinction. This has led to educational costs, heinous crimes and moral deterioration on a vast scale corroborated by an exodus from all manner of religion. In practical terms, our taxpayers are funding the creation of social ills and then forced to pay for it on the back side with costly welfare programs. Future generations will look back one day and be amazed at how truly barbaric our domestic relations courts once were. A scheme of laws and processes derived from feudal equity doctrines has been retained which features loving parents engaged in brutal contests over their offspring in a public arena. A winner-take-all battle for custody leads to overregulation of families by the state and marginalization, alienation or outright extinction of one fit parent from the children’s lives. Anal investigations of the combatants’ backgrounds by self serving advisors incite further controversy to last a lifetime. It is a spectacle reminiscent of the Roman Coliseum. No person or entity has ever been able to achieve a comprehensive study of the vast detriment which this archaic custody and support system has had upon our society. Any such effort would assuredly be stymied because custody and unequal parenting are highly profitable. Yet common sense dictates that our nation could be well served with sweeping reforms here in our least scrutinized branch of government. We can put a man on the moon, split atoms, engage artificial intelligence and achieve vast breakthroughs in medicine but remain unable to extricate family courts from their nineteenth century practices.

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